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Campaign of Hate

ABC Evening News ran a story on their January 2nd broadcast about the current fat-shaming propaganda in the state of Georgia, which features large billboards displaying images of fat kids with various disparaging captions. 

The proponents of this campaign say that parents of Fat kids should be utterly castigated for allowing their children to become and remain ‘obese,’ and this is the most effective method of stopping the ‘obesity epidemic.’ Their proof? The ‘success’ of the anti-drug campaigns showing the horrors of drug abuse.

Crossing The Line

If I wasn’t already angry enough, the story was nice enough to draw one doozy of a false parallel which moved me from angry to incredulous. These geniuses chose to use, as their example of the ‘successful’ anti-drug campaign they were emulating to scare people skinny, a series of ads on the dangers of methamphetamine.

Comparing Apples to Razor Wire

First of all, let us look at what Fat and Meth are. Fat is a naturally occurring substance in the mammalian body. Mammal bodies come in all shapes and sizes, even amongst same species.

Meth is a manufactured chemical made from a variety of synthetic substances and other chemicals that are processed in a very dangerous and potentially lethal manner ultimately resulting in the location of manufacturing as contaminated and marked as an environmental hazard.

Secondly, the effect of Fat on the human body is an increase in size and weight (all that other stuff is linked by correlation, not causation). Fat is also essential for survival. Meth is instantly addictive, setting off a chemical atomic bomb in the brain’s pleasure centers, while destroying impulse control.

Another interesting point is that while the manufacture, sale, and use of Meth is illegal, being Fat is not a first degree felony, (give it time, though, if things don’t change).

And Just How Do I Know All This?

I live in Northeast Ohio. Ohio is one of the top Meth producing states. The county I live in has more Meth labs than any other. The city I live in has the most Meth labs in the county, the largest concentration of which is in my section of town, which means you learn about the stuff whether you want to or not.

I have been on a Meth bust when I wrote for a local newspaper. I have heard horror stories from family, friends, neighbors, and students. I have seen the pictures. I have seen the people.

Meth does many terrible things that Fat does not. Fat doesn’t cause your teeth and skin to rot, nerve damage, heart damage, brain damage, hallucinations - and it doesn’t make you commit violent, shameful acts. Fat does not cause you to allow your child to be harmed or killed. Fat does not turn your home into a biohazard.

Fat ≠ Meth.

Please contact the State of Georgia and/or ABC News and tell them that Fat Hate must stop.

Born and raised in Northeast Ohio with her BA and MA from the University of Akron, Mary has 20 years experience in the corporate sector working for local companies and Fortune 500s in customer service, PR, sales, advertising, and broadcast media. She currently teaches English Composition at Stark State College and UA. Her passion is living and teaching tolerance while pushing for Size Acceptance. She hopes to inform as many everyday Americans that the issue of Size is not an issue at all but merely a distraction from the real issues, such as the decline in public education, our infrastructure, economy and healthcare system. Mary loves irritating people by speaking her mind and presenting them with annoying facts, contrary opinions, and life's little ironies; when not doing that, she loves being with her family.

Comments

  • Jay Solomon's avatar

    I just wanted to share the contact information of the people responsible for these campaigns so that anyone able can call or write to tell them what horrible things they’re doing:

    Linda Matzigkeit (doing interviews in defense of the billboards)
    Vice President of CHOA
    404 785 7824 (her admin’s number, so please be polite)
    .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

    Stephanie Walsh (doing interviews in defense of the billboards)
    Medical Director of CHOA
    404 785 6104 (her admin’s number, so please be polite)
    .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

    Kevin McClelland (who they direct you to for complaints about the billboards)
    Public Relations Director for CHOA
    404 785 7600
    .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

    Children’s Foundation
    404-785-4483
    .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

  • Mary Stein's avatar

    Thanks for the info! Hopefully, they get the message.

  • Sometimes people disagree with you, this time that person is me. As a matter of fact your disregard for logic made this post happen:

    http://www.mrs-adventure.com/2012/01/fat-campains.html

  • Mary Stein's avatar

    Follwing is my reply to Mrs. Adventure, which I also posted on her blog page (follow link above). When reading her response to my blog above and then the comments from other readers, I noticed that more of them agreed with my statements (correlation does not equal causation, fat is a normal part of the human life cycle, bashing fat kids and their families is wrong) than hers.

    Quid Pro Quo Time, Mrs. Adventure:

    I stand by my statements and logic (Yep, logic). A naturally occurring substance in the human body is not the same as a toxic mind-altering (literally and figuratively) chemical whose manufacture and use is potentially lethal. THAT was my argument, that fat is not as dangerous or destructive as meth. Please show me one fat mom who has allowed her 18 month old child to burn alive in a house fire because she was more worried about what she was ‘cooking’ (common vernacular for manufacturing meth).

    As far as fat and all those other diseases, CAUSE has not been solidly established, only correlation, and any reputable scientist worth his/her credentials will tell you: correlation does not equal causation. If being fat caused hypertension, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, joint deterioration, fatigue, depression, anxiety, et. al., then why do thin people have those diseases as well? In addition, does anyone bother to factor in an aging Boomer population into their stats? Boomers are a very large chunk of the population and they are now in their late 40s,50s,and 60s. Age, wear and tear, injury, and disease do all take their toll on the human body at the structural and cellular levels. Lastly, let us not forget genetics, which can be both a blessing and a curse. 

    I am sorry you are still caught up in the self-castigation of body hate to the point that you worry about cookie versus carrot when you are eating emotionally (instead of eating when hungry).  A very wise man once said, “Moderation in all things.” I use this myself and with my children, both of whom are what society calls “typical” size, one of which is still too slim for slim pants.  Both of them eat what they want, when they want, and know that the human body comes in all shapes and sizes. The whole point of Size Acceptance is not about “hurt feelings” - it is about the sanctity of individuality and one’s own body and the protection of the very basic human right to make individual decisions for one’s own life

    Hate, shame, and guilt are powerful motivators, but they are far more destructive than beneficial.  Why tear someone down when it is just as easy and FAR more helpful to build them up instead?

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